Is Peru calling you in 2012?

Here is a glimpse into just ONE of the sacred ceremonies that you’ll be participating in should you decide to join us in Peru in Sept 2012…We have a place still available for you. Along with the ceremony described below we will also be burning our own intentions and prayers in the sacred fire created by our shaman. You can begin now to write those special requests, intentions or prayers as they come to mind and if you can’t be in Peru with us we will take them for you and place them in the fire. You may also wish to include things you are grateful for.

This is a powerful ceremony to participate in. If it’s on your heart to be there with us then do it. The Universe will provide a way.

Here is a glimpse into this beautiful ceremony.

Since ancestral times, peoples of the Andes have maintained a unique way of connecting or reconnecting themselves with the harmony of nature. The names for the ceremony differ according to the region. In the Quechua language of the Inkas, it is called “Jaiway”. There are even more names for it in the Northern, Eastern and Western regions of the Andes; but in recent times, it most known as the “Despacho.”

Performing a Despacho ceremony is a unique way of connecting with the energy and spirits of nature. Generally, it is done to honor Mother Earth, or “Pachamama,” and the “Apus,” or the nature spirits that may take the form of mountains, rivers or lakes. A Despacho is also done to express or manifest what we would like to attract into our lives or into the lives of our family or community members. We show our gratitude, love and respect for Mother Earth and the great nature spirits of the mountains, lakes or rivers through symbolism, in the form of items representing the best of our work and our finest crops. By expressing love and gratitude from the bottom of our hearts, we are also manifesting our intentions to attract more of what it is we are grateful for.

The components of a Despacho are physical and spiritual, tangible and intangible. They represent what is part of our lives now, and our intentions for what is to come next. The act of harmonizing with nature is done by engaging ourselves in a sacred Ayni or spiritual act of reciprocity with the energies of the Universe. Just as in the physical world we receive help when we give help to others, in the spiritual-energetic world, the same law applies.

Prior to doing a Despacho ceremony, each person participating (Despachos are usually done in a group setting) should prepare him or herself. The length of the preparation depends on the type of ceremony or event for which the intention is directed. There are many ways to prepare, but the purpose is the same—one needs to elevate one’s consciousness, engaging his or her higher self. Some effective methods of preparation include meditation (following a tradition that feels comfortable), listening to relaxing music, engaging in prayer, or cleansing oneself by smudging with incense, sage or tobacco.

Setting the environment for a Despacho can take a few minutes. The idea is to set the tone to create a respectful sacred circle. In the Andes, people sometime use flutes, rattles or drums to play music, or chant in a ceremonial, meditative rhythm.

Paqos or Andean practitioners of the Inka tradition perform Despacho ceremonies outdoors to be physically close to Nature. Weather permitting, it is best to take off one’s shoes not only to show reverence and respect to the sacred circle but also to be in direct contact with Mother Earth, the Apus, and the spiritual guides that will be invoked to join the circle. A Despacho ceremony creates a ‘waka’ or a sacred temple in the place where it is performed;

The ceremony itself may vary from region to region, just like the name varies, but the goal is the always the same—to connect, recognize our true purpose, and experience Ayni on the three planes of existence—physical, mental and spiritual—using our purest intentions via our higher self.

Immediately before beginning a Despacho ceremony, it’s helpful to do a final cleansing exercise as a group. This might take the form of a short guided meditation to help everyone release any remaining heavy energy, followed by smudging with sage. Such acts of final cleansing help set the stage for the Despacho by allowing people to achieve a relaxed, meditative state of being.

The Despacho ceremony begins when the leader of the ceremony, lays out a large, plain piece of paper. The group offering will be built on, and later wrapped in, this paper.

The first item added to the Despacho is a seashell shaped like those that house clams. By starting with the shell, the group invokes the feminine energies of Mama Qocha, the Mother of the Oceans, as well as those of Pachamama, or Mother Earth. Since our Mother literally supports our every step and gives so generously of Herself to care for us, we build our Despacho offering starting with her energy as our base.

Once the shell is in place, the leader distributes three coca leaves to each person participating in the Despacho. Upon receiving the three leaves, each participant arranges the leaves so that the bases overlay each other at one end, but the points of the leaves spread out like a fan. Participants should hold onto their three-leaf arrangements, called Kintu, with both hands to show reverence to the sacredness of the ceremony.

After everyone in the group is holding their Kintu, the leader asks the participants to invoke the presence of their spiritual guides so that the group will be surrounded and supported by the sacred aspects of the Divine that are most important to each person in attendance.

The participants return their Kintus to the ceremony leader, who tucks them artfully around the shell in the center of the Despacho, so that they fan out in all directions. The leader then invites the participants to contribute their individual offerings to the Despacho, each in turn, along with their most sincere intentions that they wish to communicate to the Creator through the Despacho.

Depending on the purpose for the Despacho, these intentions may be expressions of gratitude for the abundance received, the growth experienced, or recent lessons that have been internalized. Or they may include requests for healing for the participants themselves or for their friends or families, as well as requests to manifest any number of outcomes, from a happy marriage, children, business success, or protection for a home or car, to name a few examples.

With each intention put into the Despacho, the person voicing it adds one or more items around and on top of the shell and Kintus. Items offered may include such things as candies or cookies (it’s well known in the Andes that like many of us, Pachamama loves sweet treats); products of our harvest, especially rice and other grains (which nourish the Apus); cotton (representing the clouds, which connect our physical realm with the world of Spirit); gold and silver foil (representing the masculine energy of the sun and the feminine energy of the moon); multicolored confetti or paper streamers (representing joy and the rainbow, our reminder that our ultimate purpose is to ascend and to help others do the same); animal fat (representing the richness and abundance of our lives); and spices or perfumed waters (representing the fullness and beauty of our lives).

Despachos may only be used for helping people, never for harm, as they are a fundamental tool for spiritual ascension.

When the participants have finished contributing their individual offerings and voicing their purest intentions into the Despacho, the leader offers a toast to Pachamama, by dipping flowers—preferably red (the color of Pachamama) and white (the color of the Apus)—into a chalice filled with water or chicha (drink made of corn). The leader shakes the flowers to sprinkle a few drops around the offerings in the Despacho, and then spills a few more drops onto the ground. Sometimes (depending on the size of the group), the leader will pass the chalice and flowers around so that each person can do the same. When the toast is complete, the leader lays the flowers (or flower petals) around the Despacho, forming a ring on top of the offerings.

The final item added before closing the Despacho is a small wooden cross, typically made of two twigs. The cross represents the masculine energy, complementing the feminine energy that began the ceremony. It also serves as a reminder to be of service to each other in our daily lives, to give freely of the best of ourselves with joy, gratitude and love.

At this point, the Despacho is closed by folding the paper into a square “package” holding the offerings inside like a wrapped gift, and tying the package with string (preferably yellow, representing the golden rays and unconditional love of Father Sun). The leader will then ask each participant to add a final blessing and any final intentions to the Despacho before it is sent to the higher realm (usually through the smoke once it is burned). S/he lays the Despacho “package” on top of his or her mesa (personal altar) and breathe his or her final blessing into it before passing it around the circle.

Finally, each member of the group thanks his or her spirit guides for their presence during the ceremony and the Despacho is burned.

Since ancient times, people of the Andes have based their lives on the natural principles embodied in Despacho ceremonies. The recognized inherently the importance of expressing their gratitude both to the Creator and to the ultimate provider of the necessary components of all life—the Earth (soil), the Sun (energy), the Wind (air), and the Water—for they knew that without any one of them, all life would die. Likewise, they recognized the essential need for balance in life, the complete interdependence of the masculine and the feminine, and the undeniable interconnectedness between ourselves and all other inhabitants in our Universe.

Taken from an article by Ricardo Sanchez

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With love,
Monique

You have Spiritual and Soul DNA

You are a Spirit. You have a Soul. You live in a body.

Just as you have a physical DNA you also have a Spiritual and a Soul DNA.

Your physical DNA determines things like your sex, eye color, hair color, race and even your predisposition to some diseases. It’s what determines some of your physiological and anatomical features.

Your spiritual DNA brings with it certain things that are part of your birthright. The spiritual DNA contains invaluable gems.  Your “gifts” or as I call them “sacred gifts” are part of your Spiritual DNA. You have innate abilities that are unexplainable and that allow you to do certain things extraordinarily well. You are coded for greatness.

You also have free will which is the ability in any circumstance to choose from a selection of alternatives.  This is part of your Spiritual DNA.

You have the capacity to love, to be confident and joyful and you are pure goodness at a Spiritual DNA level. You have built into you the ability to trust.  There is a quote in Romans 12:3 “God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.” Your Spiritual DNA sets you up to become the greatest expression of who you are.

We are human however so we also have a  Soul DNA. The Self! The Soul DNA can get in the way of the Spiritual DNA. The Soul DNA is comprised of things like your personality, your attitudes, your emotions, your behavior,  your feelings, your performance, your beliefs, your perceptions, your conditioning, your experiences as well as all your fears.

When you know who you are in your Spiritual DNA you can start to by-pass many of the blocks that the Soul DNA puts up. Your worth and value are determined by your Spiritual DNA however how you see yourself and how you value yourself is part of your Soul DNA.

Your Spiritual DNA shows you your potentiality. Your Soul DNA if not in alignment with your Spiritual DNA will show you your limitations.

Both contribute greatly to self awareness. Self awareness leads to choices and choices lead to change.

It’s difficult to make choices or to even know that you have choices when you don’t know your Spiritual or Soul DNA.

You are a Spirit. You have a Soul. You live in a body.

Knowing all your DNA can lead to Sacred Living vs. Living Scared.

Are Being Happy and Being on Purpose the Same?

I’m not the sharpest knife in the drawer when it comes to math however I can see that I have to rework my equation for life!

G + MN = FP

YOUR GIFTS + A MEANINGFUL NEED = FEELING ON PURPOSE

I teach that if you know your gifts and you are using and applying them in an area of work that is totally meaningful to you then you will FEEL on purpose. I still stand behind this however this doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll be happy or grateful for what you have.

Happiness and gratitude are attitudes, a state of mind. So you can be totally feeling on purpose in the work you do and be miserable when you think about your spouse, your house, your finances or your cat that peed on the carpet this morning.

Attitude plays a huge part in your happiness. We see evidence in the celebrity world of very gifted individuals who are brilliant at what they do and on stage they are clearly on purpose however that doesn’t mean they are happy off stage and it doesn’t ensure that they are grateful for what they have. Those are attitudes, perceptions… the way you look at your life. It’s a state of enjoying life even if there are circumstances around you that may not always be enjoyable.

Many people who appear to “have it all” can suffer from stinking thinking. You can be doing a job you actually love, you can be super effective at your work and you may get a lot of feedback of how amazing you are at what you do. You may be in the right place at the right time and still have negative emotions about all kinds of things.  Yet you can also appear to have nothing, have little money or posessions, do work that to some may appear to be menial and yet feel on purpose, be happy and feel grateful.

So let’s flip it and look at it the other way. Can you be happy even if you are not feeling totally on purpose? YES! Of course you can. You may be in transition between careers, or you may be working a job that is not in alignment with your gifts or you may be applying your gifts to an area that really isn’t meaningful to you anymore, however you can still have an attitude of happiness about your life and find something to be grateful about.. You can still be happy as you move from where you are to where you are going next.

Perhaps the new equation could be

G + MN = FP + AHG = LL

Your Gifts applied to something that is meaningful to you and of benefit to others = Feeling on Purpose. Add to that an Attitude of Happy Gratefulness and it all = LOVING YOUR LIFE.

Do you love your life? Are you happy? The good news is you can be. The bad news is it’s challenging to fish around in a stinkin’ thinkin’ mind to find new happy grateful thoughts. So let the Universe work in YOU.

You don’t have to work at being happy and grateful as much as you do have to invite “happy” and “grateful”  into your life.

A simple prayer:

I invite an attitude of happiness and gratitude into my life. Universe, make me the happy, grateful person I have the capacity to be.  And so it is!   The Universe knows what to do next. Butt out!

“I wish you joy and happiness… but most of all I wish you love”  ~ Whitney

Know Your Gifts; Live Your Best Life

I’m always writing and talking about why it’s so important to know what your gifts are so that you can align your work and life with them. It was great for me to read what someone else had to say about it. David attended our workshop this past weekend. Here is his blog post on the topic. Copy the URL into your browser if the link doesn’t work

http://in2deep.wordpress.com/2012/02/07/sacred-gifts/

Thank you David for this well written piece. You captured it all beautifully.

Focus On What You Want to Experience

Focus on what you want for the holiday season. Keep your eye off the “busy” feeling. For me I want a week filled with fun, family, friends, food, frolicking, festivities, surprises and lots of love and connection. I keep my eye only on that and when I feel myself going to the stress place of shopping I shift my attention to the things I want and then the path getting there seems less stressful. I also set really clear intentions before I do any shopping. My intention was to stay out of busy malls unless it’s to buy something for me. The night I did go it was not busy and it was easy to find what I wanted…. GREAT strappy black shoes….  I expect to find what I want and if I don’t know what I want for someone I expect it to show up and that I’ll know it’s perfect for that person. I put a lot of demands ( in a reverent and loving way ) on the Universe/ God/ my team of angels at this time of year. If I try and do it alone it just gets to be too much. Yesterday I was so happy that while I was at Maya’s for a healing treatment I got to see the most magnificent hand made soaps she makes and they were a perfect gift for some on my list.  I did many many years of super shopping stressed out Christmases… Not any more. I keep my eye on the outcome I want and I keep focused on giving my Sacred Gifts to others and receiving from God through others.

Take your attention off how others will behave or what they will do. If your Aunt Mary is a pain in the butt at Christmas dinners and you’re wanting her to behave remember to reframe into what you want. Instead of ” I want Aunt Mary to stay sober and behave” try.. I am wanting to enjoy my Christmas Day more than any other Christmas past… no matter what happens”  Now it’s in your power and not Aunt Mary’s to determine the way you feel on that day.

Give it a shot. You’ve got nothing to lose except the stress and frustration of a busy holiday season.

Merry Christmas and God bless you